Thursday, February 24, 2011

Ask

Last summer I went with my dad to an extended care facility where his church was giving a service to their members who lived there and he was the featured speaker.  His topic was "ask" as in ask god for the things you need.

Each year my friend has a word that is the theme she focuses on in her life and it shows on her blog.  I thought a lot about it, especially lately, and my word is ASK.

I've needed even more help in the last few days since the sprained ankle incident.  I needed help from my gram to take me to the doc and the pharmacy and some other places, and then today my brother came over and helped me.  He took out my garbage and put in all those daylight spectrum lightbulbs because he's tall and I can't stand on a chair with crutches.  He helped me put my splint cast thing on.  He took my grocery shopping.  He took me out to the family's house to hang out and brought me home when I was so tired.  He brought in my dog food because that's something he always does for me.

And I asked for that help.  And I got it.  I am very grateful for my family, my support system, the people who take care of me.  I'm grateful I was able to hear my dad's talk and learned to ask.  For long-term readers of this blog, you know asking for help has never been something I'm good at.  I'm getting better.  I'll try to ask for help when I'm not. :)

4 comments:

  1. ask for help to ask for help . . . this could really get crazy! You know we're all always there for you (our independent or stubborn?) girl!

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  2. Thanks, mom! Independent, yes. Stubborn.... yes. And I do remember in dad's talk that asking for help to ask for help was an important part of the asking process.

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  3. Ask is a good word for the year! I like it. And I've had to learn to ask D for the help I need. The funny thing is, he always does what I ask and never acts like it's a bother, so I wonder why does it bug me so? So let's both work on that independent, stubborn streak, aye? :)

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  4. Yeah, it's a deal… reluctantly. :)

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